Another thing that I need to catch up on: Â My little man is potty trained. Â He’s been for… oh, a couple months now? Â He was potty trained right after he turned 2, which people never stop telling me is highly unusual – especially for a boy. Â Well… it’s not so unusual for OUR boy, no? Â *smile*
A couple people have asked how we did it, upon noticing the lack of “diaper bulge” when we’re out and about, but I have little advice to offer. Â As always, I simply followed his lead. Â When we was around 6 months old, I considered trying “elimination communication” with him and purchased a little red potty. Â It’s been sitting in the bathroom since then. Â I was too lazy to do the elimination communication thing, though, especially since he was, at 6 months, “a late starter.” Â The only advice I can possibly think to offer, then, is this: Â Don’t be shy. Â Chris & I have not been at all shy (ahem) about bathroom habits. Â Felix has seen everything & has always tended to wander in and hang out. Â Since his little red potty is in his bathroom, he would often sit on it and wait. Â I’m sure that has much to do with it. Â We never pushed and never made a big deal out of it. Â I did notice that he found the whole idea pretty interesting (I know, strange, but we’re talking about toddlers here) and liked sitting on his potty. Â Then I found out that, in order to go to preschool, he needed to be fully potty trained. Â So I started letting him run around the house sans diaper and pants and would occasionally ask if he wanted to sit on the potty. Â After only a couple of days, he was totally in to the idea. Â At home, without his pants on, he just started going to sit on his potty whenever he had to pee. Â Flash forward to now – he never wears diapers during the day, even when we’re out and about. Â We’ve been out for entire afternoons and he will always ask to go.
Poop (just what you want to hear about, right?) was another matter. Â For a couple of weeks, it seemed to frighten him and he would get frantic whenever he’d feel like he had to go. Â For about a week, he drove me mad by asking me to “wipe” him every 5 minutes, for hours on end. Â And then he’d poop on the floor, which cracked me up. Â I didn’t care that he pooped on the floor, I just didn’t like the endless demand of “wipe wipe wipe?” Â That lasted for a couple of weeks and then he started going on the potty. Â Another couple weeks of letting him run around without pants all day (because that was the next hangup) and then I eased him in to wearing underwear (toddler boxers briefs! Â CUTEST THING EVER) and now it’s all exactly what you’d expect from a civilized, socialized person. Â And I will say… having a potty trained kid, at 2 years, is freaking awesome. Â Life truly is grand, after diapers. Â But other than “don’t be shy” the only other bit of advice I have doesn’t work for everyone because it seems like parents just get obsessed with the process: Â don’t stress out, don’t push. Â This all happened, for us, because we didn’t care that much. Â It was “if you want to, here’s the option but if you don’t want to, cool. Â Do whatever.” Â I mean, I had a little internal pressure going on about the preschool thing but I knew that the worst case scenario would be that he’d start a little later than we wanted. Â No big deal.






She took some blood and tested him for anemia & his vitamin D levels today. She does this with all babies, since so many people, including babies are vitamin D deficient these days and she likes to catch it early. I’m pretty sure he’s far from being vitamin D deficient – I make a point to get him outside & into the sunshine almost every day. On particularly hot & sunny days, if we get out between 10 and 2 and we’ll be out for awhile, I wait about 15-20 minutes to put sunscreen on him, so that he can get the most potent amount of vitamin D & sunshine possible. (Myself, as well.) Since we live in the Pacific Northwest now, getting enough sun is definitely something at the forefront of my mind. I also asked her about giving him some of our fermented cod liver oil in the winter (another thing that’s good for combatting vitamin D deficiency) and she was all for it. I’ll have to figure out how to get it to him, though, seeing as the capsules are too big and I doubt he’ll want to taste that in his milk. Blech.
His top two teeth! His bottom ones came in completely last month. (I think it was last month? I’m losing time already.) We took him to the Ricicli photo shoot (you know, cause HE’S A MODEL, NOW!) and it made me nervous, for a moment, to see a 7 month old who was already crawling & could get herself up to a sitting position. Only for a moment – I remember when I was worried that he didn’t roll over much before and then suddenly one day, BAM! he’s all over the place with the rolling. He sits, but doesn’t get into a sitting position by himself yet and he scoots around from one end of the room to the other, without crawling. Within the past couple weeks, he’s started to get up on his hands & knees and rock back and forth – which means in the next couple weeks, I’ll just wake up one morning and BAM! he’ll be crawling all over the place and driving me mad. I watched him with the other babies at the Ricicli photo shoot and he’s definitely an observer. While the other ones rolled around, smiling indiscriminately and grabbing at everything, he just sat there, watching watching watching and taking it all in. He did occasionally reach out and touch others, but only when their backs were turned. (Typical boy.) They say that easy going babies tend to take longer to do things like crawl, walk, etc – while he is incredibly easygoing, I think he’s also so busy thinking that he tends to forget to move. He gets that from me, for sure.
He is also quite the little piggy. I see how much other kids eat, then I see how much we give him. I asked the pediatrician, and she waved me off. “He’s growing beautifully.” In other words, don’t compare. He loves peaches, apples, pears, cherries, yams, peas, green beans, carrots (orange AND purple), avocado and… I’m sure I’m forgetting something. He’s very interested in food and seems to get a little angry when we’re eating stuff that he doesn’t get. This weekend, I think I’m going to add oatmeal (to go with his peaches or blueberries) and maybe a little spice like cinnamon. I had asked the pediatrician about food and she made a good point – there are so many different things done across so many different cultures. Who’s to say which is right? He’s hungry, he loves to eat… so we’ll just keep going.